Submissive JOI

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Men or women who crave dominant partners enjoy getting and following masturbation instructions until they cream. If you’re reading this second sentence, you must be part of the submissive JOI group, and I’m honored to be hosting you for such a treat. As we proceed, a naughty guy/lady must earn the right to jerk-off, especially if you’re following guidelines from a dominant performer.

The session below is a submissive JOI where a naughty guy seeks instructions from a model, nurse Hellen. Hopefully, you’ll be able to explore your body and prolong your orgasm for the longest time by following these instructions.

I’m out enjoying the sun when my phone chimes. Upon checking, it’s a text from an unknown number. 

“Hey, I need your nurse services now. It seems I’m swollen”.

Kindly share your contact for further consultation.

Quickly, I saved the number and then made a video call to consult with my new patient.

Hello, this is Nurse Hellen. What seems to be the problem? Where’s the swelling?

I can see a slight bulge between my patient’s thighs, though his hands covered it, or is it my active mind sending my eyes to the wrong place?  

Well, it seems you’re unwell. What’s the issue, honey?

My, my, Dee keeps failing me. 

What? I ask in shock. 

Please repeat.

He murmurs the exact words, and I can tell my patient is hurt by his voice. 

I just walked away from the second girl today, but I couldn’t get to the finish line with them. What should I do? Should I cut it off?

No, no, no! I said to him quickly, cutting off his other words and thoughts.

Let’s help you get hard then you can go back to crush those pussies. Are you ready, for your jerkmate? 

Yes, Nurse Hellena. 

I want you to undress and relax so that we can unleash the monster that will make you proud. 

Below are the detailed jerk-off instructions that followed this chat. For me, it was steamy, and the patient ended up satisfied and more confident.  

READY for Submissive JOI?

We’re about to have some mad pleasure. These instructions are intended to make your dick rise to the occasion fully and take the longest time for your girl and yourself to enjoy pleasurable sex. Don’t forget how confident you’ll be feeling in the end. Here, all focus is on you. 

Put on a Timer

I’ll help you play with your dick for the longest time to ensure you can hold your seed for the longest time to please your lady. Here are a few rules for this session:

  • Make sure the timer is on 
  • Your favorite sex toys (not a must)
  • Your lube is nearby, and 
  • Obey my guidelines 

Applying Lube 

Squeeze a generous amount of lube on your left hand, then slowly spread it on the head. Feel the cool tingling and spread it down the shaft using your left hand. DON’T rush it; go slowly to ensure the lube is well spread and the entire dick is slippery. 

With one hand on your dick, place the other hand on your hands and pull your nipples softly. At the same time, you’re moving your other hand up and down the dick softly, and don’t squeeze it. 

We’re not in a hurry, but we’re looking for maximum pleasure for the longest time!  

Massaging the Dick with One Hand

Keep your right hand away from the dick and slide down your couch to be more accessible and relaxed. Rub the lube for as long as you can until your dick has a whole bulge. As it fills up, pleasure levels are rising, but don’t rush to squeeze the dick.   

Add the Second Hand to the Party

Now that pleasure levels are rising, follow up your left hand with the right hand slowly and softly. Both hands should work closely to motivate our dick to become a monster, but there will be no cumming soon. 

STOP EVERYTHING!

As you move in excitement, don’t be carried away because the JOI is just getting started. Get your hands off that dick, and let me feel it too. 

It’s rock hard, and I’m running my tongue from the head downward to the shaft, then to your balls. I stuff them into my mouth and suck on them like my life depends on it. 

Mmmmmmmmmh…they taste so good, and I love how you’re mourning. Please don’t close your legs. I must suck on these balls until my cunt is wet enough for you to slide in. 

It feels so good. I can’t wait to have it in my pussy.

As I take the balls out of my mouth, I slowly lick the dick upwards to the tip. Yes, I feel that tingly feeling on the whole dick. Once I get to the head, I run the tongue around and watch as you get restless with pleasure. 

Now Help Me  

Place both your hands on each side of your dick and help me keep it straight. As I tickle the head with my tongue, move your hands on both sides up and down with my mouth. 

Remember, you’re my submissive boy, so I will slowly take my mouth off your dick and leave you to massage your dick thoroughly with both hands. Let one hand lead while the other follows in a circular motion. Don’t be too fast, but keep a moderate speed. 

My pussy is so wet and soft. I get on my knees for you to see how much it desires your powerful thrusts. I’m so turned on watching your powerful cock and thinking how it’s gonna fill me. 

Don’t stop rubbing it. Keep going, bad boy. I can’t seem to wait. I’m rubbing my clit in desire because you’re having so much fun. 

STOP and Free Your Dick

As your dick is set free from the grip of your hands and is moving up and down, I also take off my hands from my pussy and spread my legs before you. See how wet I am for you? I know you’re salivating for it, but not so fast. 

I know we are not together, but picture your favorite girl before you wiggling her ass before you. A wet pussy, how easy it is to slide in. Her mouth is open, and she’s licking her lips, staring at you with her eyes filled with so much desire. 

Your dick must now have enough precum to allow your hands to slide freely. Place one hand on the head, spread the precum, and repeat with the second hand. Tighten the grip a little like you’re milking your cock. 

How does it feel? 

Like you want to burst, like you want to let go? NOT YET. 

Let’s keep going for some time. Don’t cum too fast and leave me hanging. Rub on for as long as you can. 

Take Your Time and Cum at Your Own Time

Move your hands up and down your dick. Increase the motion as pleasure increases, and thrust your dick through your hands as you imagine thrusting my wet pussy nonstop. 

You can cum on your own time but don’t be too fast to avoid leaving your girl hanging, or else she’ll have to finish by herself. 

When you’re ready to cum, I want to watch as your seed squirts all over your stomach and some trickles from the tip of your dick down the shaft. 

How Long was That? Did Our Submissive JOI Work for You?

On a scale of five to twenty minutes, where are you?  

How long were you able to deny yourself an orgasm?

Well, this is my first submissive JOI. Was it impressive? Would you want more? Please comment below about the type of JOI you’d love to explore and I’ll do just that for you.  

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Jerk-Off Instructions (JOI): The Comprehensive Guide on

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Are you new to Jerk-off Instructions (JOI)? Do you masturbate? Most likely, but who am I to judge?

But, if you do, you’re familiar with the jerk-off instructions world, only that you play alone. How about taking jerk-off instructions from another person until you explode? All this will happen in secret, where there’s no judgment. And you can fearlessly explore your body to whatever limits. 

What are jerk-off instructions? Jerk-off instructions are where a performer (visual or writer) gives the viewer or reader instructions to masturbate. Why would I want someone to provide me with instructions on how to masturbate? You may take instructions because it’s kinky, you explore your pleasure points, and no one will judge you. 

JOI is part of the dominant sex, and if dominance excites you, JOI is the jackpot. Although it’s part of Bondage, Discipline, Submission, and Masochism (BDSM), it can also be done tenderly without humiliating the viewer.  In our guide today, we’ll introduce you to the basics of JOI and where to find these instructions, then treat you to a dominant session.

Types of Jerk-Off Instructions

JOI porn mainly targets heterosexual men who enjoy a dominant female directing them on how to masturbate and get an orgasm. The female pornstar or model encourages the viewer or listener (content can be video or audio) to play with his genitals. There are also JOI sites for women, but they ain’t as common.

The pornstar dominantly takes charge of the session giving condescending instructions to the viewer or playing the role of a loving girlfriend. These sessions are sexually stimulating to sexual submissives who allow the pornstar performer to control their actions leading to a fast or delayed orgasm. So, what are the types of JOI you can come across in the porn industry? Here are the common types of JOI:

A female model on a bed ready to give jerk-off instructions.
  • Basic JOI is the most popular, and it involves a performer who demonstrates or explains different masturbation techniques for masturbation. They can use different body-safe sex toys, hands, or other objects that can add pleasure during masturbation. 
  • Role-play is a type of JOI in which the performer assumes a particular role, such as a nurse, maid, teacher, or doctor. The performer guides a viewer through a sexual experience, befitting the specific role in pursuit of pleasure. 
  • Fantasy JOI is about the performer taking on a specific fantasy character like a superhero or princess. The chosen character is incorporated into the masturbation routine to please the viewer.
  • Interactive JOI is where the performer engages with the viewer in real time through a chat offering customized guidelines and feedback.

JOI allows viewers to exercise the freedom to fulfill their untold desires or join an Onlyfans club without being judged, feeling like less of a man, or. Plus, during JOI sessions, all focus and attention is on the viewer, which makes them feel special, something they might lack in the real world.

Kinks That Go Well with Jerk-Off Instructions 

Once you decide to indulge or follow jerk-off instructions, it’s important to forget everything else and ask for whatever you want from your performer. If anything, you’re the point of focus and interest here, and the session must be enjoyable. 

A female model lost in self pleasure.

You can ask a few questions to ensure you’re comfortable, your desires are met to the maximum, and you feel appreciated. JOI can be combined with various dominant activities:

Therefore, as a model, understand your viewers, especially in real-time video interactions. If you create content for viewers to enjoy online, ensure you have clear-cut jerk instructions for every caliber to make it all-inclusive, as both can’t be cooked in the same pot. 

As for you, the viewer, choose what resonates with your desires. Here are some kinky lines that are easily combined in JOI:

Humiliation JOI (Performer)

Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) is as simple as the title dictates. Do I have a small penis? Yes. You’re allowed to make fun of it, laugh, or show some disgust as the performer about how disgusted you are. The opportunity to humiliate your viewers doesn’t mean you can go overboard, but you must combine SPH words so that they appreciate themselves and have fun. 

Cum Eating Instructions(CEI) is about making your viewer eat their cum. You can get creative and ask them to collect it in a bowl, glass, hands, or the floor, making them eat it as they talk about its taste. 

Edging is when the performer brings the viewer close to orgasm repeatedly, but you instruct them to hold. The importance of edging is that it makes the viewer feel more in control yet submissive to the performer. 

Girlfriend Experience(GFE) is ideal for less dominant customers and models. Although it doesn’t have to be akin to a whole girlfriend experience, the scenario should be relaxing and a call to help your viewers pleasure and enjoy themselves. 

A lady model lying on their stomach wearing a bikini.

The number of kinks you can incorporate when giving JOI is extensive, as you can get creative to help your viewer connect and find pleasure. These activities aren’t definite, but as the performer, you can be innovative to ensure all your viewers feel included and comfortable. 

The Standard Dominant Performer

The standard JOI performance is more intense than humiliation, requiring the performer to be more dominant. Here are some factors to remember when performing as the standard dominant performer:

  • Be confident and don’t ask, as appearing unsure before someone who expects you to tell them what to do can be infuriating and a turn-off. Hence, you need to discuss the kind of kink the viewer is comfortable with and the limits. Understanding your customer’s needs and desires can help you avoid unpleasant experiences and boost your confidence. 
  • Be in control even with less dominant JOI. Being in control means providing instructions by telling them what to touch and what not to touch, including the speed (fast or slow). Tell them to grab their balls or let go softly and how to include other body parts in the conversation. Don’t limit yourself; you can get creative to make things more interesting and pleasurable. 
  • Create a Cum countdown to combine pleasure with fun. Let your customer gauge their ability to edge orgasm on a countdown. Most, if not all, customers who love dominant JOI sessions appreciate a countdown to help them find out how long they can hold an orgasm before climaxing. 
  • Tease and talk to your customer regularly: don’t be too quick or slow to help test their endurance further. Tell them not to touch themselves until you say so if you can. Throughout the session, your viewer or customer will wait for you to give them instructions in the chat (if it’s live), or you write clear steps to achieve this goal. 

Sites You Can Find JOI

If you’re interested in exploring the world of jerk-off instructions, there are plenty of places online to find them.

  1. Dick Ratings Only is a platform where fans connect with JOI models and content creators who love being honest about rating dicks. Here you learn a few things about dicks while having a good time with a promise of anonymity. The Dick Ratings community is kinky and welcoming to anyone who joins the platform. 
  2. OnlyFans is a popular platform where content is shared with users who subscribe to the channel. Users can create and post exclusive photos and videos that are only accessible to subscribers. 
  3. WankItNow is a premium JOI pornsite that presents hot models who are ready to guide users through hot masturbation sites. 
  4. FullofJOI is part of the popular Mylf network that hosts multiple adult webcam sites with various jerk-off-instruction videos with mature models encouraging models to cum. 
  5. JOI Humiliation is where you go to surrender to Female Domination (Femdom). Models promise to give you sweet humiliation like you never experienced before.  

There are other platforms where JOI content is available, like Pornhub, ManyVids, and XHamster. Some social media platforms like X (Twitter) also host JOI content as long as you search relevant hashtags. 

Why Turn to Jerk-Off Instructions?

A female model in a knee position.

In the past, jerk-off instructions mainly targeted men since they love to masturbate. But today, it’s a thing for everyone, including couples. So, why would you turn to JOI? There are a handful of reasons why JOI is popular. Let’s explore the different reasons why anyone would opt for JOI at any time:

  • An opportunity to explore fantasies and desires. JOI happens in a controlled environment where you feel safe, as there are no judgments. By following the instructions of a dominant character, the viewer or reader can experience more feelings and pleasure, not to mention the opportunity to explore their body entirely. 
  • Main focus. Listening or watching jerk-off instructions keeps the focus on the reader or viewer. The content is dedicated to one person, which makes them feel unique and valued.  
  • A form of escapism. Daily life struggles can take a toll on your sex life. But, if you give a chance to jerk-off instructions, you can regain your energy, remain on top of your game, and become an excellent sex partner. 
  • Learn the kind of sexual partner you are (dominant or submissive). If JOI turns you on, then you’re a submissive partner. But you’re the dominant partner if you love to dish them out.
  • Improve sexual experience. Watching or reading jerk-off instructions makes you comfortable with your sexuality, which can lead to more satisfying sexual pleasure. If you work with a partner, you learn each other’s pleasure points and new ways of giving hand jobs. 
  • Develop or recognize a fetish. It may be easier for some people to climax when listening to or watching JOI, which can help them accept the fetish as part of their sexual identity. JOI can help a partner learn how to give instructions during foreplay and be in control. 

FAQs

What is jerk-off encouragement?

Jerk-off encouragement is a type of pornography where a performer or model guides a viewer to masturbate. The content can be recorded or a live chat. Depending on preference, the session can be of a dominant or submissive nature. 

Why is JOI popular? 

Jerk-off instructions (JOI) are popular because they’re an inexpensive and private way to find pleasure. JOI also allows the viewer to explore their pleasure zones without judgment or questions. 

Who gives JOI?

Jerk-off instructions are given by a model to a viewer in a recorded video or audio, a live chat, or written content.  

Are You Ready for Our Jerk-Off Instructions?

As a performer, you control the Jerk-Off Instruction session and can prolong it to your advantage. As a result, the session lasts longer, the customer remains excited for a long, and the best part is that money keeps trickling in. 

Since you’ll serve different customers, some may want a dominant JOI, while others prefer a more submissive session. But, this should never make you shy of asking how the customer is doing, whether the session is a live video chat, written or recorded. Most importantly, ensure you don’t cross the line in any way by humiliating someone who needs a submissive treat. 

For a man to ask for whatever type of JOI, they need comfort, kindness, and pleasure to escape their daily life or routine. Therefore, since they came to you for reasons known to them, be whatever they need to make their lives better. 

Creating JOI content is akin to acting since, most times, you’ll be playing a character that resonates with your specific client. Get ready to explore a new world of our Jerk Off Instruction Sessions!